Sweet Canvas Prints!

A while back I was contacted by a representative from Easy Canvas Prints regarding an awesome deal to turn my pictures to canvas! They would give me a free 8x10 canvas print in exchange for reviewing it on my blog! I was skeptical at first, but low and behold...my free print arrived VERY QUICKLY after I placed my order and it is beautiful!

I had a hard time deciding which picture to have printed but decided on one of my rainbow baby's Easter photo shoot! I tried it out in different locations of the house and am still not 100% sure where I'm going to keep it, but for right now it resides on the entry wall to our bedroom. Notice how the photo wraps all around the edges of the canvas...that's my favorite part!!

I can't get enough of that sweet face! Thanks you so much to Easy Canvas Prints for this opportunity. I highly recommend their product and plan to purchase more in the future ... unless I can convince them to keep giving them to me for free :)

July 4th

This day two years ago was one of the worst days of grieving Mackenzie. I had a cute little 4th of July dress picked out for her and the sight of it in her closet full of unworn outfits shattered what was left of my broken heart. It was also the first day I left the house alone postpartum. My grandma had a stroke the day Mackenzie died and since July 4th is her birthday I went to the rehab hospital to see her. I hadn't even pulled out of the driveway and I was sobbing uncontrollably. I just kept thinking about how i should have a baby in the backseat. I'm crying just thinking about it. Those were some rough days. I felt so lonely. On the way there I had to pass the cemetery so I stopped. I couldn't bear not to stop but knew I shouldn't because I was already a wreck. I just went out there and cried and cried. I kept thinking about that little outfit at home and how she'd never wear it. I finally made it to the rehab hospital to meet up with my family but I still couldn't stop crying. We weren't supposed to upset my grandma so I barely pulled it together long enough to make an appearance but I had to leave quickly. I cried all the way home and didn't stop there. That was a really bad day.

Today we celebrated my grandma's birthday at her house. She's recovered so much in 2 years. So have I. I'm not over it by an means...I'm crying like a baby right now in fact... But today Paisley wore that 4th of July outfit for her sister and it meant the world to me that I could finally see it worn. Paisley didn't replace Mackenzie, and when I was pregnant I thought I'd never let paisley wear many of Mackenzie's clothes...but now I feel like it's a tribute to Mackenzie. It's like she's there with us, too because I remember her when I see those special outfits. I'm so very thankful for Paisley as she has brought me joy I couldn't have imagined possible. It's all so bittersweet. I'm just glad it's more sweet than bitter 2 years later <3

You are always on my heart Mackenzie! Mommy loves you deeply & eternally <3

Almost 2 Years

Next week will be 2 years since I last held Mackenzie. Hard to believe. I can't even fathom what my life would be like now with a toddler going through the terrible twos. I'd like to have that life back. The one where I was innocent and naive. The one where you got pregnant and ended the 9 months with a baby. The one where you were picking out birth announcements instead of planning a funeral. The one where you plan an insanely overboard first birthday party instead of having cake at the cemetery. Granted, I'm having those experiences now with my Rainbow baby but it's always jaded by the fear of not making it to that next milestone. Always afraid if I plan something I will jinx myself. This year feels incredibly different than last year. We are going to keep it low key, but I hope it's not so low key that no one remembers the terrible loss we suffered two years ago...

Online Silent Auction via Facebook

PLEASE go "like" my Missing Mackenzie Facebook page and take part in the auction we have going on beginning June 16th and running through June 18th.

Here is the link to the Events Page with all of the details.

This auction is for a GREAT cause!!! Also, let me know if you have any items you think you could donate :)

Facebook Silent Auction

So I hate to blog for the first time in forever to ask a favor...but I'm gonna ;)

I'm trying to put together a silent auction to be held on Facebook to raise money for the support group I attend and in honor of Mackenzie's upcoming 2nd birthday.

But, in order to do this I need donations of items to auction off. It could be anything really! If it's store bought it should be new or it could be handmade. Things like jewelry, baby items, figurines, journals, trinkets, picture frames, candles/holders, etc. Needs to be small enough to ship to me and for me to in turn ship to the highest bidder. If you are a business you will be promoted by name and website on the listing.

Let me know if you think you could help!!! And be sure to look out for more posts inviting you to participate in the auction! :)

I was a bidder in a similar auction recently help by another BLM and it was SO FUN!!! I won the cutest froggy hat for my rainbow baby for a great price, too!!!

Photo Contest - Rainbow Baby

If anyone is on Facebook and wouldn't mind voting for my little rainbow baby in a photo contest click here:

Photo Contest :)

You have to "like" the photographer's page before you can vote.

Thanks in advance :)

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On another note, I'm thinking of starting a new blog for P so she doesn't take over her sister's space here. Just haven't done it yet because it's hard enough for me to keep up with this one. I barely get time to sit at the computer anymore. I just don't want to offend anyone who may read here who doesn't feel comfortable reading about a new baby. We'll see what happens.

Bad mom?

I see a lot of moms of Rainbow Babies say they are more sad now than before they had a living child. I feel like a bad mom to Mackenzie and just overall guilty that I don't feel that way. I mean, yes, there are times when I still cry for Mackenzie and a lot of the time it's because through Paisley I see what I missed with Mackenzie. Or sometimes when Paisley sleeps she looks a lot like her big sister and my heart skips a beat. But overall the joy has been restored in my life and I am abundantly grateful to have Paisley. I am on cloud nine with her and love spending every minute I can with her. Maybe I just don't have time to be more sad...because as a new mom I find myself overwhelmed. Everything I do is for Paisley...she consumes all my time (except when I'm at work...although I'm thinking about her all day). I don't know how to explain it. If I really let myself "go there" and remember all the awful things that happened to me & how Mackenzie's life was unspeakably short I get emotional, but for the most part I am much better now. I think I owe most of this joy to God. I really feel like Paisley is a blessing from Him and I feel an overwhelming amount of comfort in the knowledge that Mackenzie is perfect in Heaven and we will all be together as a family one day.

On another note, does anyone deal with anxiety? After Mackenzie died I was scared my husband would die, too and that was the extent of it really. I wasn't scared of dying myself because I wanted to be with Mackenzie (not suicidal, just not scared to die). But now that Paisley is here, not only am I scared she might die but I am insanely afraid that I will. I've been having some medical problems that no one can figure out, but I'm starting to believe a lot of them are anxiety. Every time something happens to me I automatically think the worst and that I'm dying. My husband and I went to Cirque du Soleil yesterday and it was in this giant tent and it was packed. I got really nervous that something terrible would happen (like the tent would catch on fire) and that we wouldn't be able to get out. And then I started thinking "what if someone in here starts shooting people" because they didn't check bags or have metal detectors on the way in like at sporting events. Then at one point in the show the whole place started smelling like flowers and it was really really strong and sudden. I silently started freaking out because I thought "what if someone is trying to poison everyone in here?" Eventually it became clear that it was a part of the show, so obviously I'm just a freak. What is wrong with me? Those thoughts are insane. Granted, crazy things happen all the time, but why does my mind go there? I told my husband I think I have anxiety problems and he thinks I'm silly. Well, anyways, just wanted to get that out!